Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Jan 3, 2026.
Our words can become thorns or flowers
In one sentence
Because speech reveals character and shapes our fate, Muslims should emulate the Prophets by speaking beautifully, gently, and responsibly, especially when correcting others or communicating online.
The khutbah in 5 steps
- Ethical manners and meaningful speech were once taught alongside academic subjects.
- The Prophet's mission included perfecting manners, making the Prophets behavioral role models.
- Beautiful, gentle speech should replace insults, profanity, mockery, curses, and offensive labels.
- Cursing and calling others disbelievers can rebound on the speaker; the Quran should prompt self-accountability.
- Control the tongue and de-escalate hostile exchanges in WhatsApp and other group discussions.
Try this week
Speak to people with beautiful, gentle, lenient language, including when correcting them.
Avoid profanity, insults, curses, mockery, ethnic jokes, sarcastic remarks, and offensive nicknames.
If someone is ignorant or mistaken, advise or educate them with love and respect, and forgive their mistakes.
Before posting or forwarding a curse or accusation on social media, pause and examine yourself.
When a group-chat argument escalates into back-and-forth insults, intervene to calm it down.
Model respectful speech for children in family life and online.
Quotes
In the khateeb's words
“They may be good people I am not saying that But our role models How to behave Are our Prophets”
“If somebody is ignorant You give them good advice If somebody doesn't know Educate them And all of this with love and respect”
“The Quran is not Something Through which we judge others Quran is a mirror In which we judge ourselves It's for us”
“The words that come out of our mouth Are like the seeds that go into the earth And they will turn into Either thorns Or flowers for us in the year after Which one do you want?”
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