Wealth & charityFrom the masjid's own video, Oct 4, 2025.

Serving others opens our hearts

“When we care for each other, we help ourselves.”

The khateeb, at 24:43

In one sentence

The khutbah argues that trusting and knowing Allah should lead Muslims to persistent dua, dutiful care for parents and relatives, and compassionate service to orphans and the poor.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Calls listeners to turn to Allah first during calamity, strengthen iman, and trust His timing in answering dua.
  2. Uses gratitude for Allah’s past provision to challenge anxiety about future rizq.
  3. Explains the duty to honor parents, including serving them during life and continuing their good deeds after death.
  4. Warns against family comparison and redirects personal worth toward taqwa and a clean heart.
  5. Connects hardness of heart with ignoring suffering, prescribing care for the poor and orphans.
  6. Concludes with the believers-as-one-body hadith, an Iqna Relief announcement, and prayers.
Try this week
Turn to Allah first during calamity and persist in dua beyond a few attempts.
Speak personally to Allah in sujood and thank Him for daily provision.
Serve parents while they are alive; afterward, continue their good deeds and maintain their relationships.
Stop comparing relatives and cultivate taqwa and a clean heart.
Feed the poor, care for orphans, and make dua rather than scrolling past suffering.
Visit the Iqna Relief table to learn about local assistance programs.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 17Used to stress that believers must not even say “Uf” to their parents.
Surah 49Used to argue that taqwa, rather than status or comparison, determines honor before Allah.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“It's not when you want your dua to be answered. But rather when Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala wants to answer your dua. In the most perfect of times.”
ICC Tempe · Tempe, AZ
Play from 8:14
“We need to bring back the Sunnah of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam to teach them proper manners.”
ICC Tempe · Tempe, AZ
Play from 15:59
“But rather it is our problem. It is something that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala wants us to fix. Have a helping hand in there.”
ICC Tempe · Tempe, AZ
Play from 22:13
“When we feed the poor. We help ourselves. When we care for each other. We help ourselves. First and foremost. Before we even help them. We open our hearts to them.”
ICC Tempe · Tempe, AZ
Play from 24:43
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah reminds us to turn to Allah first when life becomes difficult. We should keep making dua, trust Allah’s timing, and notice the blessings He has already given us. It also teaches us to honor our parents and relatives with patience, kindness, and service. Instead of comparing ourselves with others, we should focus on taqwa and the condition of our hearts. Caring for poor people and orphans helps our community and softens our own hearts.

  1. When has waiting for something helped you trust Allah more?
  2. What is one kind thing we can do for a parent or relative this week?
  3. How can our family help someone who is poor, lonely, or in need?