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Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 3, 2025.

A gentle heart draws Allah’s mercy

Dar-us-Salaam · Safi Khan

“Be merciful to the ones on this earth and the one above the heavens will be merciful to you.”

The khateeb, at 24:01

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In one sentence

A believer should soften and cultivate the heart through the Quran, Sunnah, remembrance, mercy, and service, because a gentle heart attracts Allah’s love, mercy, guidance, and peace.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Explains that Allah’s love is sought through a soft, gentle heart.
  2. Describes the heart as the vessel of beliefs, intentions, concerns, and character.
  3. Shows how the Quran and revelation soften the heart and make it receptive to truth.
  4. Connects knowledge of Allah with increased mercy toward people, animals, and the environment.
  5. Applies gentleness to speech, assumptions, forgiveness, community relationships, and service.
  6. Concludes that choosing Allah daily brings serenity, wisdom, detachment from worldly distractions, and success in both worlds.
Try this week
Fill the heart with Quran and remembrance of Allah.
Think well of people instead of assuming bad motives.
Give others excuses rather than condemnations.
Practice forgiveness instead of vengeance.
Help and serve others, even when it requires sacrifice.
Choose Allah and prioritize the Hereafter over gossip and worldly distractions.
Sources the khateeb cited
Quran 53:3-4Used to establish that the Prophet’s guidance is revelation and therefore authoritative.
Quran 2:88Used to explain that spiritual barriers come from disbelief and defiance.
Quran 39:23Used to show that the Quran softens hearts through awe and remembrance of Allah.
Quran 3:159Used to show that Allah’s mercy made the Prophet gentle with people.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“Knowledge without mercy Is very destructive There are a lot of people Who know a lot About Islam But there's no mercy In their heart”
Dar-us-Salaam · College Park, MD
Play from 17:31
“Be merciful to the ones On this earth And the one above the heavens Will be merciful to you”
Dar-us-Salaam · College Park, MD
Play from 24:01
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah teaches that the heart is like a vessel: what we put into it shapes who we become. A heart filled with Quran, remembrance, and good intentions becomes soft, gentle, and ready to receive Allah’s love. As our knowledge of Allah grows, our mercy toward people, animals, and the world around us should grow too. We should think well of others, forgive more readily, and help people for Allah’s sake. Choosing Allah each day brings peace, wisdom, and strength in this life and the next.

  1. What is one way we can show mercy to someone this week?
  2. What kinds of things make a heart hard or soft?
  3. When is it hardest to forgive someone, and what could help?
Where it was given

The masjid

Dar-us-Salaam (Al-Huda Inc.)5301 Edgewood Road, College Park, MD 20740Jumu'ah 12:15 PM & 1:15 PM · held off-site at Knights of ColumbusKhateebSafi KhanMore khutbahsArchiveAll khutbahs at Dar-us-Salaam48 khutbahs
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