6:03 Saying something good…18:37 That is what Islam…
Wealth & charityFrom the masjid's own video, Oct 28, 2026.

Charity should protect the recipient's dignity

ROIC

“That is what Islam teaches us, to take into consideration not only the financial situation of those who are in need but the feelings as well.”

The khateeb, at 18:37

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In one sentence

Charity must be given sincerely and in a way that protects the recipient's dignity, because reminders, insults, suspicion, or emotional pressure can nullify its spiritual value.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. The Tabuk expedition illustrates generous giving during hardship.
  2. Quranic teachings describe charity’s multiplication and prohibit reminders or harm.
  3. Kind words and forgiveness are better than charity followed by insult.
  4. Examples from Fir'aun, mosque donors, and Tabuk show how reminders and suspicion harm recipients.
  5. A hadith warns against reminding people of one’s charity.
  6. The khutbah concludes by emphasizing privacy, sincerity, and the recipient’s feelings.
Try this week
If you cannot give, respond kindly without insulting or judging the person asking.
Do not remind recipients of previous donations or use gifts to create guilt.
Forgive harsh words from people who ask for help.
Avoid assuming that someone will misuse assistance.
Give without expecting thanks, influence, or repayment, and protect the recipient’s emotional comfort.
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In the khateeb's words

“Saying something good and forgiveness is better than charity that is followed by an insult or harm.”
ROIC · Upper Kirby / River Oaks, TX
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“That is what Islam teaches us, to take into consideration not only the financial situation of those who are in need, but the feelings as well.”
ROIC · Upper Kirby / River Oaks, TX
Play from 18:37
Where it was given

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River Oaks Islamic Center (ISGH Main Center)3110 Eastside St, Houston, TX 77098ArchiveAll khutbahs at ROIC5 khutbahs
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