Speak less to protect your fast
“If it's good, then say it. If not, then remain silent.”
As Ramadan approaches, believers should prepare not only through worship but by disciplining their tongues so fasting develops taqwa and lasting good character.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Urges preparation for Ramadan through fasting, prayer, Quran, zakah, charity, and generosity.
- Warns that sins of the tongue can undermine the reward and blessings of fasting.
- Explains the duty to speak truthfully and follow the guidance to speak good or remain silent.
- Applies the lesson to hunger, anger, family life, and the Prophet’s merciful example.
- Uses Hasan al-Basri’s advice and a classroom nickname story to show how seemingly harmless words can hurt.
- Extends accountability to backbiting, slander, false information, and digital messages, then closes with supplications.
In the khateeb's words
“But you won't achieve the closeness of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.”
“If it's good, then say it. If not, then remain silent.”
“And what we type is also going to be held accountable there's many things that we have to be aware of when we type just like when we speak”
For the dinner table
As Ramadan approaches, the imam reminded us to prepare our words as well as our fasting, prayers, and charity. Fasting should help us grow closer to Allah, and lying, mocking, backbiting, and harsh speech can cost us its reward and blessings. He encouraged us to pause before speaking and follow the Prophet’s example of mercy toward his family, even when we feel hungry or stressed. He shared a story about a child who laughed at a nickname while secretly feeling hurt, reminding us to listen carefully to how others feel. Our typed messages matter too, so we can start practicing kind, truthful, helpful words now and carry those habits beyond Ramadan.
- What could help you choose kind words when you feel hungry or upset?
- How could you check whether a friend really likes a nickname?
- What is one way you could use a message to encourage someone this week?
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