Wealth & charityFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 3, 2025.

Give from what Allah has given you

“Spend from what you have and each one should spend from the best of what he has or she has.”

The khateeb, at 16:59

In one sentence

The khutbah teaches that infaq is an expected act of worship, using whatever Allah has given us to support family, vulnerable people, and the community with generosity, sincerity, and humility.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Explains Quran 2:215 as guidance to spend on parents, relatives, orphans, the poor, and stranded travelers.
  2. Encourages asking sincere questions to overcome ignorance, embarrassment, and arrogance.
  3. Urges parents and teachers to receive questions with patience, respect, and humility.
  4. Distinguishes avoiding sinful deeds from actively performing positive deeds such as helping, teaching, reconciling, and giving.
  5. Expands infaq beyond money to include time, knowledge, experience, strength, transportation, and useful connections.
  6. Teaches giving from good things one loves, at all times and for Allah’s sake, while supporting mosques and community needs.
Try this week
Ask knowledgeable people sincere questions instead of remaining embarrassed or ignorant.
Answer children’s and students’ questions patiently, respectfully, and without humiliation.
Give from what Allah has provided, including money, time, knowledge, experience, strength, transportation, and connections.
Prioritize parents, relatives, orphans, poor people, and stranded travelers.
Give from good things you value, regularly and sincerely, including private charity and mosque support.
Sources the khateeb cited
Quran 2:215Defines appropriate recipients of spending and emphasizes that Allah knows every good deed.
Quran 3:92Teaches that righteousness requires spending from what one loves.
Quran 2:267Instructs believers to give from good earnings rather than inferior things.
Quran 2:274Encourages spending by night and day, privately and publicly.
Quran 3:133-134Praises spending in prosperity and adversity alongside controlling anger and forgiving others.
Quran 2:261Illustrates the multiplied reward for spending in Allah’s cause.
Sahih MuslimCites the teaching that Allah is pure and accepts only what is pure.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“it's not shameful that you made a mistake but what's shameful that you repeat the mistakes many many times and you never correct yourself”
El-Zahra · Midland Park, NJ
Play from 5:19
“if you are a father and your son ask you a question smile and listen and try to answer don't shout at him don't humiliate him”
El-Zahra · Midland Park, NJ
Play from 6:26
“spend from what you have and each one should spend from the best of what he has or she has”
El-Zahra · Midland Park, NJ
Play from 16:59
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The imam reminded us that asking questions helps us learn, and embarrassment or pride should not keep us from seeking knowledge. He encouraged parents and teachers to listen with kindness so people feel safe asking for help. Giving is part of our faith, and it includes sharing our time, knowledge, strength, and experience as well as money. He highlighted caring for parents, relatives, orphans, people in need, and travelers who are stranded. We should give good things that we value and remember that Allah knows every good deed, even when nobody thanks us.

  1. What is something you want to understand better, and whom could you ask for help?
  2. What could you share this week besides money to help someone?
  3. What is something you love that you could share to make another person happy?