Praise can turn worship into hidden shirk
“Allah is the one who sanctifies people.”
The khutbah argues that hidden shirk appears when worship or self-image is shaped by people’s praise or one’s own ego, so believers must guard their intentions, avoid self-purification and exaggerated praise, honor others’ rights, and cultivate humility before Allah.
The khutbah in 4 steps
- Explains shirk’s unique danger and Allah’s just judgment of lesser sins.
- Rejects claims of personal purity and excuses based on Allah’s mercy.
- Warns against taking others’ rights and giving exaggerated praise.
- Defines riya and ujb as hidden shirk and calls for sincere encouragement, self-examination, humility, and supplication.
In the khateeb's words
“Even I can't take the rights of other people and Allah is ghafur raheem. No, ya Habibi.”
“So riya' is showing off. You do for the people. Ujb self-admiration.”
For the dinner table
The khutbah warns us about hidden shirk: doing good deeds for people’s praise or becoming impressed with ourselves. It reminds us that Allah alone knows our hearts, so we should not claim to be pure or use Allah’s mercy as an excuse to harm others. We should encourage good efforts kindly, but avoid exaggerated praise that can feed someone’s ego. The examples of Umar and other early Muslims show us to remember our humble reality and ask Allah for humility. It closes with prayers for forgiveness, protection from spiritual trials, and help for oppressed Muslims in several places.
- When have you felt proud of yourself, and how could you turn that feeling into gratitude?
- How can we compliment someone kindly without making them feel superior?
- What private good deed could you do this week just for Allah?
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