Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 3, 2025.
Following the Prophet means showing mercy everywhere
“The best one among you, the one who is the best to his family.”
In one sentence
Knowing and following Prophet Muhammad's example of mercy should shape how Muslims treat parents, spouses, children, neighbors, animals, and their wider responsibilities.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Calls listeners to know the Prophet's life and seerah before claiming to follow him.
- Presents the Prophet as a divine gift and mercy, urging gratitude, love, obedience, and rejoicing in Allah's blessings.
- Explains mercy toward parents, including serving living parents and praying, honoring friends, maintaining kinship, and giving ongoing charity for deceased parents.
- Applies mercy to spouses and family through kindness, fulfilling each person's rights, and balancing religious, bodily, work, and family duties.
- Applies mercy to elders, children, and scholars through respect, affection, promises kept, and equal treatment of sons and daughters.
- Extends mercy to neighbors, vulnerable people, and animals, warning against harm, envy, and neglect, then closes with supplications and prayer.
Try this week
Study the Prophet's seerah and discuss his stories and examples.
Serve and honor parents, pray for deceased parents, honor their friends, maintain kinship, and give ongoing charity on their behalf.
Be kind and attentive to spouses and family while balancing religious, work, bodily, and household responsibilities.
Respect elders and scholars, show mercy to children, keep promises, and treat sons and daughters equally.
Be a safe and peaceful neighbor, help those who are hungry or struggling, and avoid harming people with the tongue.
Care for animals and other vulnerable creatures by providing food, water, shelter, or humane treatment.
Make supplication for the sick, deceased, Muslims, and people in Palestine and Gaza.
Sources the khateeb cited
Quran 10:58Supports rejoicing over Allah's bounty and mercy.
Quran 21:107Describes the Prophet as mercy to the worlds.
Quran 3:31Links love of Allah with following the Prophet.
Quran 9:128Highlights the Prophet's care and mercy toward believers.
Quotes
In the khateeb's words
“How can we follow someone we don't know about him? That's why learning the seerah studying the Prophet life, talking about his stories, learning his examples is mandatory.”
“the best one among you, the one who is the best to his family, to his wife and to his family.”
“Love the children and have mercy on them. If you promise then fulfill the promise because the children think the parents provide for them.”
Talk about it at home
For the dinner table
The khutbah taught that Prophet Muhammad is a gift and mercy from Allah, so knowing his life helps us follow him. His mercy should appear in how we treat parents, spouses, children, neighbors, elders, scholars, and animals. We should balance our responsibilities rather than excelling in one area while neglecting another. The speaker especially urged fairness between children, kindness at home, prayers and ongoing good deeds for deceased parents, and safety for neighbors. It closed with prayers for healing, knowledge, Islam, and relief for people in Palestine and Gaza.
- What is one merciful action you could show someone in our family this week?
- How can we make sure everyone in our family feels treated fairly?
- Who nearby might need practical help, food, water, or kindness?
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