Sincerity matters more than religious appearance
“Islam came to bring equality, to bring kindness, respect.”
Because Shaytan can turn religious aspiration into sin, pride, gossip, and exclusion, believers must continually seek Allah’s help, protect others’ dignity, and act with humility and sincerity.
The khutbah in 7 steps
- Explains Imam al-Sajjad’s plea to be taken before Shaytan’s corruption overtakes him.
- Retells a young man’s lost appointment as Imam Hasan al-Askari’s servant after a sinful night.
- Warns that religious appearance, status, or good intentions do not guarantee Allah’s favor.
- Uses a mosque anecdote to urge inclusion, kindness, equality, and respect.
- Teaches that backbiting can destroy another person’s dignity and brings accountability before Allah.
- Emphasizes dependence on Allah and sincerity rather than performing religious work for recognition.
- Closes with a prayer for Allah to correct faults and brief guidance about prayer timing and travel.
In the khateeb's words
“Islam came to bring equality, to bring kindness, respect. It's not about race. It's not about your family member.”
“Do not do anything for people. Do it for the cause of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.”
For the dinner table
Today the khateeb continued explaining Imam Sajjad's (as) Dua Makarim al-Akhlaq, where the Imam asks Allah to protect him from shaytan before his life becomes shaytan's 'pasture.' He told the story of a young man whose prayer to serve Imam Hasan al-Askari (as) was answered, but he lost that honour because he gave in to one night of sin, telling himself he could just repent later. The khateeb reminded us that no one is guaranteed to stay good, and that even religious people must watch out for pride, for harshness that pushes others away from Islam, and especially for backbiting, which can destroy someone's dignity in a moment. He also shared how, as a young Quran reciter, he lost his voice on stage when he started reciting to impress the crowd and not for Allah. The main message is to stay connected to Allah through dua, do everything for His sake, and remember that every good thing we do is only possible with His permission.
- Why do you think shaytan tells people 'just this once, you can say sorry later'?
- Has anyone ever made you feel welcome when you felt out of place, and how can you do that for someone else?
- What could you say if a friend starts talking badly about someone who isn't there?
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