Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Oct 27, 2025.

Leadership means guiding others toward Allah

“It's about taking a group of individuals and yourselves to a higher level in which you are seeking the pleasure of Allah.”

The khateeb, at 29:05

In one sentence

Leadership is not a title or position but a situational responsibility to guide people toward Allah’s pleasure, empower others, and prepare the next generation.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Defines leadership as the ability to move people toward a better place rather than a title.
  2. Uses khalifa to emphasize stewardship, succession, and preparing youth for responsibility.
  3. Uses imam to connect leadership with night worship, spiritual quality, and private devotion.
  4. Uses sultan and wali to distinguish authority and guardianship from leadership by example.
  5. Uses Uhud and Hudaybiyah to show consultation, decisive judgment, empowerment, and learning from mistakes.
  6. Concludes that spiritual intelligence means guiding oneself and others toward Allah’s pleasure.
Try this week
Study Quranic examples of khalifa, imam, sultan, and wali alongside the prophets’ and companions’ leadership.
Strengthen a private relationship with Allah through night prayer, Quran reading, and dhikr.
Lead family members by example by praying with them, attending the masjid, and treating parents well.
Seek counsel through shura, then follow through once a decision is made.
Identify and nurture successors, especially youth, by giving them meaningful responsibilities.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 2Uses khalifa for stewardship of the earth and succession across generations, and imam for Ibrahim.
Surah 48Uses Hudaybiyah to frame following the Prophet through confusion as the real victory.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“Leadership is not a title. Just because I stand on this podium today doesn't qualify me to be a leader. Just because I'm somebody's boss does not mean I'm a leader.”
ICCC · Parsippany-Troy Hills, NJ
Play from 11:32
“So if you want to talk about the highest form of leadership in Islam, it's about taking a group of individuals and yourselves to a higher level in which you are seeking the pleasure of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.”
ICCC · Parsippany-Troy Hills, NJ
Play from 29:05
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah teaches that leadership is not a title; it is the ability to help people move toward a better purpose. Every person has responsibility for others, especially parents, family members, and community members who can prepare the next generation. Real leadership begins with a private relationship with Allah, grows through prayer and good example, and includes listening to wise counsel. The Prophet’s examples from Uhud and Hudaybiyah show that a leader sometimes consults others and sometimes makes a difficult decision for the long-term good. At home, we can practice this by worshipping consistently, serving our families, encouraging young people, and helping them become ready to carry the mantle.

  1. Where can our family lead by example this week?
  2. Who has helped you become better, and how could you help someone else?
  3. What does seeking Allah’s pleasure look like in one choice you make tomorrow?