Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Aug 28, 2026.
Stop gossip before it destroys trust
In one sentence
Namima, or gossip and tale-bearing, is a destructive moral disease that spreads conflict, so believers must verify reports and refuse to pass them on.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Frames the Prophet's mission as perfecting noble character and reforming moral diseases.
- Defines namima as carrying people's words between others in ways that expose private matters and create conflict.
- Explains that gossip destroys trust, separates loved ones, and may be motivated by harming someone or gaining closeness.
- Uses Quranic warnings and teachings from the Prophet and Ahl al-Bayt to describe gossip's spiritual consequences.
- Advises listeners to verify reports, accept sincere denials and apologies, and reject multiple accusations.
- Urges families and communities to stop gossip immediately to preserve marriage, friendship, and social harmony.
Try this week
Verify reports before reacting or judging someone.
If the accused person denies the statement and apologizes, accept the denial and apology.
Reject and do not repeat gossip, even when several people claim it is true.
Stop gossip at the beginning to protect marriages, families, friendships, and community trust.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 2The separation of spouses is used to compare gossip's divisive effects with magic.
Surah 49The command to verify news from a corrupt source supports careful fact-checking.
Surah 68The description of the habitual slanderer and gossip-carrier illustrates the character of the nammam.
Surah 104The warning of woe for backbiters and slanderers underscores gossip's punishment.
Surah 24The warning against spreading indecency among believers is applied to damaging rumors.
Quotes
In the khateeb's words
“one of the most interesting sins of the tongue is the gossip carrying people's word from one person to another in a way in a way that exposes private matters”
“this is the way in order to stop the gossiping in order to keep the relationships between you and your brothers between you and your family between you and your friends”
Talk about it at home
For the dinner table
The khutbah teaches that gossip is not harmless talk; it can expose private matters, damage trust, and divide families and friends. The speaker reminds us that gossip may come from a desire to hurt someone or to gain closeness with another person. When we hear an accusation, we should pause, verify the report, and accept a sincere denial or apology instead of collecting more claims. We should refuse to repeat rumors and stop them early. This protects our homes, friendships, and wider community.
- How can we respond when someone brings us a rumor about another person?
- What can we say when friends try to make us pass along private information?
- How does accepting an apology help protect relationships?
Where it was given
The masjid
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