Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Aug 28, 2025.

Honor guests and welcome mosque visitors

“She should be reminded she should be educated but she should not feel excommunicated.”

The khateeb, at 12:11

In one sentence

Believers should honor household guests and newcomers to the mosque for Allah’s sake, using hospitality, mercy, and gentle guidance to strengthen faith, brotherhood, and the Sunnah.

The khutbah in 5 steps

  1. Frames excellent manners as central to Islam and the Prophet’s mission.
  2. Presents honoring guests as a sign of faith through examples from Ibrahim, the Prophet, and the Ansar.
  3. Connects hospitality with unity, brotherhood, and reviving the Sunnah.
  4. Applies guest-honoring to mosque visitors, urging welcome regardless of dress, background, or conduct.
  5. Calls for kind speech, inclusion, and masajid that open doors of goodness rather than exclusion.
Try this week
Invite and feed people for Allah’s sake, not for worldly benefit.
Welcome mosque visitors with respectful speech, kindness, and comfortable treatment.
Gently educate people about proper conduct without making them feel excommunicated.
Avoid gossiping about newcomers’ appearance, speech, clothing, or behavior.
Make the masjid a welcoming place for people seeking guidance.
Open doors of goodness and close doors of evil through merciful action.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“whosoever believes in Allah and believes in the day of judgment that day where they will return back to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala then they should honor their guests”
Dar Al-Istiqamah · Brooklyn, NY
Play from 3:47
“she should be reminded she should be educated but she should not feel excommunicated”
Dar Al-Istiqamah · Brooklyn, NY
Play from 12:11
“we need to be those who open the doors of goodness and those who shut the doors of evil”
Dar Al-Istiqamah · Brooklyn, NY
Play from 17:43
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Today’s khutbah reminded us that honoring guests is part of our faith in Allah and the Last Day. We welcome and feed people to please Allah and strengthen our bonds, without expecting something in return. The khateeb shared examples of generosity from Ibrahim and the companions, showing how deeply they valued their guests. He also reminded us that people entering the masjid are guests of Allah who come with different backgrounds and levels of faith. Through the examples of the Prophet and Umar, he encouraged us to guide people with mercy, protect their dignity, and help them feel welcome as they turn toward Allah.

  1. What could you do to help a guest feel comfortable in our home?
  2. How could you welcome someone your age who is visiting the masjid for the first time?
  3. What would a kind reminder sound like if someone made a mistake?