Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Oct 28, 2024.
Lower your gaze to protect the heart
“The first window to seduction and temptation is the glance.”
In one sentence
Lowering the gaze is a divine discipline for men and women that protects chastity, relationships, and the heart while bringing spiritual and worldly peace.
The khutbah in 5 steps
- Introduces the Quranic command for believing men and women to lower their gazes and protect chastity.
- Explains the glance as the first doorway toward zina, supported by prophetic teachings.
- Describes how uncontrolled looking can store harmful images, fuel temptation, and damage marriages and families.
- Lists benefits of guarding the gaze, including obedience, inner light, discernment, insight, and love for Allah.
- Shares examples of pious predecessors who resisted temptation and concludes with a prayer for understanding and practice.
Try this week
Lower the gaze around non-mahram men and women.
If an accidental glance occurs, do not follow it with a second deliberate glance.
Guard the eyes when using a phone and avoid visual content that leads toward further temptation.
Stay away from the progression of temptation, including suggestive looking, talking, listening, touching, and moving toward wrongdoing.
Quotes
In the khateeb's words
“the first window to seduction and temptation is the glance”
“Just as majority of the fires are started with small little sparks, in the same manner, the dispute between the husband and wife, marital disputes, breakups, separations, divorces, they start with the glance.”
“the first glance because it was unintentional it is forgiven Allah will not hold you accountable but the second glance the second glance you will now be held accountable for”
Talk about it at home
For the dinner table
The khutbah reminded us that Allah knows how people think, look, and respond, so His guidance is meant to protect and benefit us. Men and women are both commanded to lower their gazes and protect their chastity. The khateeb explained that temptation often begins with a glance and can grow into harmful thoughts, words, and actions. An accidental glance is forgiven, but deliberately returning to look again is something we must avoid. Lowering our gaze can bring peace, insight, and a heart more connected to Allah.
- What can help you look away from something inappropriate on a phone or screen?
- How can we remind each other to lower our gaze kindly?
- What does it mean to protect your heart as well as your eyes?
Where it was given
The masjid
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