Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Nov 14, 2025.

True dignity comes from obeying Allah

“If you really believe in Allah and the day of judgment, never sit on a table on which the wine is being served.”

The khateeb, at 18:32

In one sentence

True dignity comes from Allah through faith, obedience, knowledge, and steadfastness, not through worldly status, popularity, or conformity.

The khutbah in 5 steps

  1. Defines al-izzah as religious dignity and urges Muslims to practice Islam openly.
  2. Uses the wine-table example and hijab to discuss religious boundaries and social pressure.
  3. Recounts steadfastness from the Prophet, Bilal ibn Rabah, and Abdullah ibn Hudhafah al-Sahmi.
  4. Presents Ibn Taymiyyah as an example of knowledge-based courage before worldly power.
  5. Connects obedience, iman, and izzah, then closes with prayers and community announcements.
Try this week
Practice and teach Islam with your children.
Be open about Muslim identity, names, and religious practice.
Do not remain at a table where wine is being served; leave or move to another table.
Seek dignity through obedience to Allah and knowledge rather than money or status.
Attend the announced classes tonight and tomorrow night, and register children for Sunday’s youth conference.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“whoever believes in Allah and the day of judgment if you really believe in Allah and the day of judgment never sit on a table on which the wine is being served leave the place go to another table”
Bayonne Muslims · Bayonne, NJ
Play from 18:32
“if you want to have this type of izzah in your chest don't seek it through money position kids wherever through Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala”
Bayonne Muslims · Bayonne, NJ
Play from 28:23
“my imprisonment is a treat my exile is a journey my killing is martyrdom is a shahada”
Bayonne Muslims · Bayonne, NJ
Play from 33:34
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah taught that real dignity, or izzah, comes from Allah rather than money, status, popularity, or fitting in. It encouraged Muslims to be open about their faith, keep their names and practices with confidence, and avoid situations that compromise obedience. Stories of the Prophet’s companions and Ibn Taymiyyah showed people remaining firm when pressured by fear, comfort, or power. The speaker connected obedience, faith, and knowledge, and asked families to nurture these qualities in their children. He closed with prayers for steadfastness, relief for oppressed Muslims in Palestine, and participation in community classes and the youth conference.

  1. Where can we show confidence in our Muslim identity this week?
  2. What does seeking dignity through Allah look like in everyday life?
  3. Which class or family practice could help us grow in faith and knowledge?