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Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Jun 3, 2026.

Our gestures reveal the heart

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“Non-verbal communication could earn us good deeds or bad deeds.”

The khateeb, at 13:35

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In one sentence

Our non-verbal communication reveals the heart, affects others, and should be deliberately shaped as an act of obedience to Allah.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Defines words, vocal tone, and body language as three daily communication channels.
  2. Explores Quranic examples involving faces, eyes, hands, feet, fingers, and walking.
  3. Highlights bowing, prostration, smiling, and prophetic warnings about harmful gestures.
  4. Applies the lesson to silence during arguments, emails, and text messages.
  5. Calls for five minutes of daily silence, more voluntary worship, and mindful conduct during the first ten days of al-Hijjah.
  6. Closes with prayers for Muslims facing hardship in Palestine and Lebanon.
Try this week
Practice five minutes of complete silence each day without using a phone or watching television.
Use silence instead of immediately replying during arguments with spouses or family members.
Pay attention to facial expressions, gestures, eye contact, posture, and walking.
Smile at other Muslims and increase nawafil or sunnah worship during the first ten days of al-Hijjah.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 80Uses facial expressions and contrasting faces to illustrate inner spiritual states.
Surah 17Uses hand gestures and walking to discuss generosity, restraint, humility, and arrogance.
Surah 36Uses the testimony of hands and feet to show that bodily actions carry moral significance.
Surah 25Uses humble walking as an outward sign of faithful character.
Sahih al-BukhariUses the Prophet’s response to Aisha’s gesture about Safiyyah to warn that gestures can communicate hurtful meanings.
Sahih al-BukhariUses the hadith about voluntary worship to encourage additional nawafil and closeness to Allah.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“Non-verbal communication Could earn us good deeds Or bad deeds Could convey what we feel Inside our hearts As humble servants Of Allah Or as arrogant”
ICFV · Fountain Valley, CA
Play from 13:35
“The messenger of Allah Was more silent Than he was talking Silence Is an act Of ibadah”
ICFV · Fountain Valley, CA
Play from 19:56
“The call to action For you and me Is starting today Inshallah To practice silence Five minutes a day”
ICFV · Fountain Valley, CA
Play from 25:06
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Today’s khutbah reminded us that we communicate through our faces, gestures, tone of voice, and actions as well as our words. The khateeb encouraged us to be mindful of these messages, because a smile can welcome someone and a mocking gesture can hurt them. He also described bowing and prostrating in prayer as beautiful ways to express our devotion to Allah. When disagreements happen, he urged us to practice silence instead of always trying to have the last word. As the first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah approach, he encouraged extra voluntary worship and offered a simple daily practice: five quiet minutes without phones or television.

  1. How could you help someone feel welcome without saying anything?
  2. When you want the last word, what could help you pause?
  3. When could our family try five quiet minutes without screens?
Where it was given

The masjid

Islamic Centre of Fountain Valley16551 Brookhurst St, Fountain Valley, CA 92708ArchiveAll khutbahs at ICFV60 khutbahs
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