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Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, May 30, 2026.

Rely on Allah while taking practical means

ICOI · Hassan Elwan

“My heart is with Allah Subh'ana wa ta'ala.”

The khateeb, at 24:11

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In one sentence

Tawakkul means taking responsible practical and spiritual means while relying inwardly only on Allah and accepting uncertainty and outcomes with contentment.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Frames life as a journey to Allah requiring faith expressed through action.
  2. Defines tawakkul as using means without depending on them in the heart.
  3. Uses Musa's staff to distinguish holding means from relying on them.
  4. Identifies uncertainty tolerance and contentment when plans fail as signs of tawakkul.
  5. Extends tawakkul to worship, obedience, and relying on Allah for spiritual strength.
  6. Encourages beginning with spiritual means before material actions and making Allah's pleasure the central concern.
Try this week
Take practical means such as working, planning, seeking jobs, using security, and pursuing treatment while keeping dependence directed to Allah.
Practice uncertainty tolerance by occasionally turning off GPS, accepting that you may not know the answer, and resting while entrusting the unknown to Allah.
Before material steps, use relevant spiritual means such as dua and ruqya or reciting al-Fatiha for illness, and istighfar when seeking provision.
Begin difficult worship by saying "bismillah tawakkaltu ala Allah" and asking Allah for strength.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“I have to take the spiritual means Before the materialistic means That is my immunization I do not do the opposite”
ICOI · Irvine, CA
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“My heart is not with them My heart is with Allah Subh'ana wa ta'ala And feeling comfortable That Allah will suffice me Whether I know how Or I don't know how”
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Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Shaykh Hassan reminded us that our journey to Allah calls for both faith and action. He explained tawakkul, or reliance on Allah, as doing our part while keeping our hearts attached to Him. Through the story of Musa’s staff, he showed that useful tools belong in our hands, while our deepest trust belongs with Allah. We can make thoughtful plans and still face uncertainty or disappointment, and he encouraged us to remember that Allah knows and rewards our sincere efforts. He also encouraged us to turn to Allah through dua and remembrance as we take practical steps, and to seek His help in worship as well as in everyday needs.

  1. What is something you worked hard on that turned out differently from your plan, and how did you respond?
  2. When you feel worried about what might happen, what could help you remember Allah while doing your part?
  3. What act of worship would you like to ask Allah to help you grow in this week?
Where it was given

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Islamic Center of Irvine2 Truman, Irvine, CA 92620Jumu'ah 12:30 PM & 1:45 PMKhateebHassan ElwanMore khutbahsArchiveAll khutbahs at ICOI69 khutbahs
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