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Hajj teaches sacrifice and control of the self

DarusSalam · Minhajuddin Ahmed

“The actual true enjoyment in the life is for those who please Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.”

The khateeb, at 17:16

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In one sentence

Hajj teaches believers to imitate Ibrahim’s spirit of sacrifice by striving against the nafs, controlling anger, fulfilling worship, and becoming trustworthy witnesses to truth.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Hajj is presented as an obligatory pillar and a reminder of Ibrahim, Hajar, and Ismail’s sacrifices.
  2. Surah al-Hajj’s command to strive is interpreted primarily as struggling against the nafs and disobedience.
  3. Ibrahim’s sacrifices illustrate leaving comfort, family, homeland, and even personal safety for Allah.
  4. True strength is controlling anger, while believers are capable of the struggle Allah commands.
  5. Persistent discipline leads from the commanding nafs toward contentment and a good life.
  6. The ummah’s role as witnesses requires salah, zakah, holding firmly to Allah, and following Ibrahim’s example.
Try this week
Strive against the nafs and move away from acts of disobedience toward obedience.
Control anger rather than abusing others with the tongue or hurting them with the hands.
Establish salah consistently.
Discharge zakah and other financial obligations.
Hold firmly to Allah and remember the sacrifices of Ibrahim’s family during Dhul-Hijjah.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 22Presents Hajj’s deeper spirit as right striving, prayer, zakah, and holding firmly to Allah.
Sahih MuslimConnects jihad with protecting others, abandoning disobedience, and striving against the nafs.
Surah 22Describes defensive fighting as permitted after prolonged persecution and expulsion.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“the actual true enjoyment in the life is for those who please Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and they elevate their nafs from nafs amara bisu to nafs mutma'innah”
DarusSalam · Lombard, IL
Play from 17:16
“He is the best one to take care of the affairs and the best one to come to our aid”
DarusSalam · Lombard, IL
Play from 24:48
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Today’s khutbah reminded us that Hajj is one of Islam’s five pillars and helps us remember the sacrifices of Ibrahim, Hajar, and Ismail. The khateeb encouraged us to carry that spirit into our own lives by struggling against the desires that pull us toward disobeying Allah. He explained that our words and actions should help others feel safe, and that real strength includes controlling ourselves when we are angry. Good habits may feel difficult at first, but he reminded us that Allah does not ask us to do what is beyond our ability and that obedience can grow into sweetness and contentment. He closed by encouraging us to establish prayer, give zakah, and hold firmly to Allah, trusting Him to care for us and help us.

  1. What is one kind choice you could make this week even if it takes extra effort?
  2. When you start feeling angry, what could help you pause before speaking or acting?
  3. How could our family help one another become more consistent with prayer?
Where it was given

The masjid

Masjid DarusSalam21W525 North Avenue, Lombard, IL 60148KhateebMinhajuddin AhmedMore khutbahsArchiveAll khutbahs at DarusSalam150 khutbahs
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