Love the Prophet by following his example
“When you love somebody, you follow them.”
Loving the Prophet Muhammad is a mark of mature faith, expressed through learning his life, following his guidance over personal desire, emulating his character, and teaching his example to others.
The khutbah in 5 steps
- Love for the Prophet is presented as a higher level of faith after love of Allah.
- Following the Prophet means restraining anger, desires, hurtful speech, and unnecessary consumption.
- Stories of Hassan ibn Thabit, Sawad ibn Ghaziyyah, and an Ansari woman illustrate different forms of love.
- Remembering the Prophet and his guidance helps believers face personal trials and grief.
- The khutbah concludes with five practices: learn his life, send salawat, emulate his character, teach children, and make dua for companionship in Paradise.
In the khateeb's words
“when you love somebody you follow them when you love what you want comes second to what do they want”
“knowing his family knowing his history knowing the events that he went through will increase your love for him”
“all you need to do is love the Prophet of Allah to utter the words Allahumma salli ala Sayyidina Muhammad 100 times a day”
For the dinner table
The khutbah teaches that loving Prophet Muhammad is part of growing in faith, and that real love changes how we choose to live. The speaker illustrated this through stories of companions who expressed love through poetry, longing, sacrifice, and reliance on the Prophet’s guidance. We can grow this love by learning his life, sending salawat, and choosing his character over anger, appetite, or impulse. Families should teach children about him through both their actions and meaningful stories. We can also ask Allah to grant us closeness to the Prophet in Paradise.
- What is one habit you could change to follow the Prophet’s example more closely?
- Which story about the Prophet or his companions would you like to learn more about?
- How can our family show love for the Prophet through our actions this week?
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