18:57 How should I treat…33:48 Якщо ти можеш згодити…34:39 У нас є його життя. Це…
Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Apr 3, 2026.

Mercy can transform enemies and guide hearts

FIC · Abdullah Waheed
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In one sentence

The khutbah argues that the Prophet Muhammad's patience, mercy, and wisdom transformed former enemies, so Muslims should influence skeptics and family members through exemplary character and gentleness.

The khutbah in 7 steps

  1. Introduces former enemies of Islam as examples of transformation and guidance.
  2. Recounts how the Prophet recognized the potential of Khalid ibn al-Walid and Suhayl ibn Amr.
  3. Uses the Treaty of Hudaybiyyah to illustrate patience, integrity, and trust in Allah's wisdom.
  4. Describes Suhayl ibn Amr's transformation and leadership after the conquest of Makkah and the Prophet's death.
  5. Applies the lesson to Muslims in America engaging non-Muslims and imperfect Muslims.
  6. Urges parents to guide children gently, illustrated by the Prophet's response to a man asking about zina.
  7. Closes with Quran recitation and prayers for oppressed Muslims.
Try this week
Engage skeptical or hostile people with respect and invite them toward Islam wisely.
Model Islam through kindness, patience, and good conduct in daily interactions.
Guide children with gentleness and calm explanation rather than humiliation or shouting.
Spend intentional time working with and supporting one person who needs guidance.
Represent Islam responsibly as a Muslim living in America.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 48The Treaty of Hudaybiyyah is presented as a divinely granted victory despite appearing difficult.
Quran 3:144The verse that Muhammad is only a messenger supports steadfastness after his death.
Surah 91The closing recitation about Thamud illustrates divine judgment for wrongdoing.
Quran 16:90The closing reminder to uphold justice and excellence summarizes the ethical message.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“How should I treat you? 20 років намагання боротися і вбивати. І вбивати моїх друзів. Літерально.”
FIC · Swartz Creek, MI
Play from 18:57
“Якщо ти можеш згодити одного людину, Та одна людина, це краще, ніж найгарніші будинки, які були в той час. Важливіше, ніж будинок, було вартості камеру. Важливіше, ніж будинок в Медіні. Просто взяти час і працювати з людьми.”
FIC · Swartz Creek, MI
Play from 33:48
“У нас є його життя. Це як ми повинні бути з нашими родинами, Ми маємо бути з дітьми, ми маємо бути політними і тихими.”
FIC · Swartz Creek, MI
Play from 34:39
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Today’s khutbah reminded us that people can change, even when their past makes that seem unlikely. Through the stories of Khalid ibn al-Walid and Suhayl ibn Amr, the khateeb described how the Prophet Muhammad recognized potential in people who had opposed him. He encouraged us to be patient and gentle when helping others grow. At home, that means speaking calmly and treating children and other family members with care while still taking right and wrong seriously. We can each make time for someone, notice their strengths, and ask Allah to guide our hearts and theirs.

  1. What is one strength you see in someone you sometimes find difficult to get along with?
  2. When you make a mistake, what kind of response helps you listen and learn?
  3. Who could you make time for or encourage this week?
Where it was given

The masjid

Flint Islamic Center9447 Corunna Rd, Swartz Creek, MI 48473Jumu'ah Khutbah 2:00 PM · iqamah 2:30 PMKhateebAbdullah WaheedMore khutbahsArchiveAll khutbahs at FIC50 khutbahs
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