Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Dec 5, 2025.

The Sunnah must shape how we live

“You don't just read the hadith, you live the hadith.”

The khateeb, at 23:23

In one sentence

The Sunnah is not merely ritual practice but prophetic guidance that disciplines the ego, transforms character, and directs believers toward mercy, generosity, and moral clarity.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Interprets Surah al-Ahzab 33:6 as establishing the Prophet's greater care and authority over believers.
  2. Contrasts the unreliable nafs with prophetic guidance as the source of moral direction.
  3. Defines the Sunnah as embodied ethical transformation, not merely outward ritual or legalism.
  4. Explains that Sunnah becomes effective through intention, consistency, discipline, and small repeated practices.
  5. Connects prophetic character to contemporary racism, Gaza, suffering, and communal responsibility.
  6. Concludes with practical calls to greet others, feed the hungry, pause before reacting, and embody prophetic mercy.
Try this week
Greet people you do not know before leaving Jumu'ah.
Feed someone who lacks food, including by donating to a food bank.
Pause before acting, take breaths when angry, and think before speaking.
Greet the person behind you after prayer.
Start small, learn the Sunnah, and practice consistently rather than stopping after a short period.
Read the Prophet's seerah and apply its guidance in family, work, community, and personal life.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 33Used to argue that the Prophet has greater care and authority over believers than their own selves.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“you don't just read the hadith you live the hadith you're not in a place where it's just about the absorption of information”
ICNYC · Greenwich Village, NY
Play from 23:23
“Greet people that you don't know before you leave today. Don't let your nafs tell you that that's for somebody else.”
ICNYC · Greenwich Village, NY
Play from 37:35
“One of the most important sunnahs that we forget, that you can start practicing from today, is just take a pause before you act.”
ICNYC · Greenwich Village, NY
Play from 38:23
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah teaches that the Sunnah is more than a list of outward rituals; it is the Prophet Muhammad's way of shaping our inner character. Because our impulses and ego can mislead us, we are encouraged to let prophetic guidance form our choices, especially toward calm, mercy, humility, and generosity. We should begin small and stay consistent: pause before reacting, greet people we do not know, feed someone who is hungry, and practice kindness. The message also asks us to bring Islam into every part of life and to respond to suffering and injustice with a wakeful heart and helpful action. When we fall short, we should return with love, hope, and patience rather than shame.

  1. What is one Sunnah you could practice more consistently this week?
  2. When has pausing helped you respond more kindly?
  3. How can our family make someone else's day easier?