Hajj, Umrah & EidFrom the masjid's own video, Jun 12, 2026.

Prepare for Hajj before life changes

“Hajj is a test of your patience.”

The khateeb, at 26:23

In one sentence

Muslims who are financially and physically able should prioritize Hajj without delay, prepare by learning and saving, and embody patience, mercy, humility, and peacemaking rather than letting convenience or emotion control them.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. The sermon stresses Hajj’s urgency by highlighting life’s uncertainty and the danger of delaying an obligation.
  2. It examines competing priorities including vacations, family visits, rest, consumer purchases, mortgages, and work leave.
  3. It recommends maintaining emergency savings and directing surplus funds toward Hajj.
  4. It urges immediate preparation through studying Hajj rites, duas, and spiritual discipline.
  5. It teaches pilgrims to focus on required rites and avoid pushing, harming others, or pursuing optional acts.
  6. It applies the same discipline to mosque conduct: walk calmly when late, follow mosque rules, and seek reconciliation during disputes.
Try this week
Begin preparing for Hajj today by studying its rites, learning its duas, and practicing them.
Maintain an emergency savings cushion and direct surplus funds toward Hajj instead of optional upgrades or leisure spending.
When performing Hajj, focus on required rites and never push, hurt, or endanger others for optional acts.
Walk and drive calmly when late for prayer rather than rushing or fighting for a place.
When a mosque conflict occurs, seek reconciliation first, follow reasonable mosque rules, and oppose continued refusal of peace.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“Today you have the money, you have the health, you can do it But you know what? Life changes”
FMCCNJ · Paramus, NJ
Play from 13:58
“Get the books today Practice it today Know the dua today And you're not losing anything”
FMCCNJ · Paramus, NJ
Play from 22:44
“Hajj is a test of your patience A test of mercy A test of humility A test of your love to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala”
FMCCNJ · Paramus, NJ
Play from 26:23
“The first step we have to do When we see a fight between brothers Is not to take sides”
FMCCNJ · Paramus, NJ
Play from 29:41
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah reminds us that Muslims who are able should not keep delaying Hajj, because our health, money, and opportunities can change. We should begin preparing now by learning the rites, studying the duas, and saving wisely. Hajj is not mainly a test of strength; it is a test of patience, mercy, humility, and love for Allah. We must not hurt other people while pursuing optional acts. At the mosque, we should arrive calmly, follow reasonable rules, and seek peace before taking sides in a conflict.

  1. What is one important thing you would start preparing for today instead of postponing?
  2. How can patience and mercy change the way we act in a crowded place?
  3. What could you do first if two people in the community began arguing?