Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Aug 7, 2026.

True belief shows in disciplined choices

“Legal does not make it halal for you and me, brothers and sisters.”

The khateeb, at 9:35

In one sentence

True belief must appear in disciplined action, especially by rejecting intoxicants and gambling, guarding chastity, earning halal wealth, and protecting oneself and one’s community from harmful choices.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Begins with gratitude, repentance, shahada, and the believers’ success through good deeds.
  2. Uses local flash-flood dangers as an analogy for seemingly small choices with serious consequences.
  3. Warns against intoxicants and substances, emphasizing that legality does not make something halal and that harm spreads through families.
  4. Condemns betting apps and lotteries as pathways to escalating financial and psychological damage.
  5. Rejects donating illicit winnings to the masjid and urges earning wealth through halal means.
  6. Calls men and women to guard their eyes, chastity, modesty, and connection to Quran, prayer, and taqwa.
Try this week
Avoid intoxicants and harmful substances, even when they are legal or socially encouraged.
Say no when workplace or peer pressure invites participation in drinking or substance use.
Do not use betting apps, lotteries, or other forms of gambling.
Earn wealth through halal means and do not donate illicit winnings to the masjid.
Guard the eyes, private parts, and chastity while practicing haya at work, at home, and elsewhere.
Strengthen faith through good deeds, prayer, Quran, zakah, purification, and taqwa.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 23Used to teach that believers attain success through faith and good actions.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“Legal does not make it halal for you and me, brothers and sisters. Most of you are 21. It doesn't make it halal.”
ISCJ · Monmouth Junction, NJ
Play from 9:35
“Life is not about playing games, my brothers and sisters. This is how you get hurt, and I get hurt, and we hurt those who are around us.”
ISCJ · Monmouth Junction, NJ
Play from 14:12
“You can't build anything with that money. No, thank you. Keep it. That's how we understand our deen. You can't build things with foul intentions, with foul actions.”
ISCJ · Monmouth Junction, NJ
Play from 15:58
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah reminded us that believers do not only speak about goodness; they put faith into action through good deeds, words, hearts, and character. The khateeb compared serious spiritual dangers to flash floods: a choice may appear small at first, but it can quickly carry a person away and harm an entire family. He especially warned against intoxicants, gambling, and losing modesty, including temptations that are easily reached through our phones. He reminded us that something being legal does not necessarily make it halal, and that saying “la ilaha illallah” includes saying no to what displeases Allah. He encouraged young and old alike to recognize weakness, return to Allah, support one another, and remain connected to prayer, the Quran, and good actions.

  1. What is one good action you want to practice this week instead of only talking about it?
  2. What warning signs tell you that a choice or online activity might lead somewhere harmful?
  3. How can you say no respectfully when friends or coworkers pressure you?