Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Aug 15, 2025.

Luqman's advice builds faith and character

“Seek forgiveness from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala for committing that action.”

The khateeb, at 16:49

In one sentence

Luqman's advice to his son offers a complete guide to faith and character: remain accountable to Allah, establish prayer, promote good, endure hardship, reject pride, practice moderation, and nurture wise parent-child relationships.

The khutbah in 6 steps

  1. Explains that no deed is too small to escape Allah's knowledge, urging repentance for small sins and consistency in small good deeds.
  2. Presents prayer, enjoining good, forbidding evil, and patience as foundational duties that work together.
  3. Warns against arrogance through Iblis's example and stresses humility.
  4. Applies moderation to walking and speaking, avoiding boastfulness, excessive loudness, and excessive quietness.
  5. Connects these teachings to the qualities of Allah's servants and a balanced Islamic life.
  6. Uses Luqman's example to encourage trusting, wisdom-based parent-child relationships, ending with prayers for guidance and oppressed people.
Try this week
Seek Allah's forgiveness for even small acts of disobedience.
Remain consistent in small good deeds.
Establish the five daily prayers and pray two rakas when facing difficulty.
Enjoin good and discourage wrongdoing with wisdom.
Practice humility and moderation in walking and speaking.
Build trusting, friendly relationships between parents and children.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 31Luqman's advice teaches accountability for every deed, prayer, good conduct, patience, humility, and moderation.
Surah 2Used to connect patience and prayer as sources of divine assistance.
Surah 25Used to describe the humble walking of the servants of Ar-Rahman.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“Even if it was an action which you consider that small But it's in disobedience to Allah Seek forgiveness from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala For committing that action”
Daar-Ul-Islam · Ballwin, MO
Play from 16:49
“When we're going through Something difficult Don't be hesitant And pray two rakas of salah Ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala For assistance and for help”
Daar-Ul-Islam · Ballwin, MO
Play from 18:56
“Do not use your voice So loud Like you're braying Like a donkey Which is the most Annoying of sounds”
Daar-Ul-Islam · Ballwin, MO
Play from 21:53
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Allah knows every action, even the ones we think are too small to matter. The khutbah encourages us to keep our prayers, do good wisely, be patient in hardship, and stay humble. We should speak and carry ourselves with moderation rather than arrogance or excess. Parents are encouraged to teach with wisdom and build trusting, friendly relationships with their children. We also pray for guidance, protection for our youth, and relief for people facing oppression.

  1. What is one small good deed you can keep doing this week?
  2. When do prayer and patience help you handle a difficult moment?
  3. What helps children and parents trust one another more?