Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 26, 2025.
Your friends shape your faith
“A person will follow the religion of his friend.”
In one sentence
Because companions shape one's faith and habits, Muslims should deliberately choose friends who remind them of Allah, encourage good deeds, avoid gossip, and strengthen certainty.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- The Prophet's teaching shows that people imitate and are shaped by their friends.
- A true friend uplifts the heart, reminds one of Allah, and encourages gratitude and contentment.
- Good companionship encourages charity, Qur'an recitation, helping others, and community involvement.
- Listeners are warned to avoid backbiting, gossip, belittling others, and purposeless talk.
- A righteous friend is recognized by a sound heart and beneficial conduct, not merely eloquent speech.
- The khutbah closes with the warning that unrighteous friendships become enmity on Judgment Day, while righteous companionship endures.
Try this week
Choose friends who remind you of Allah and strengthen certainty in Him.
Spend time with people who encourage good deeds, charity, Qur'an recitation, and helping others.
Avoid companions who backbite, gossip, belittle others, or fill time with idle talk.
Seek people with sound hearts, without grudge or hatred, and aim to be such a friend yourself.
Quotes
In the khateeb's words
“The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says That a man, a person Will follow the religion of his friend”
“those people will not be adding anything to you, rather, they might be just dragging you into this trap of shaytan”
“close friends on the day of judgment will be enemies except the righteous one.”
Talk about it at home
For the dinner table
The khutbah teaches that our friends strongly influence our faith, habits, and outlook. A good friend reminds us of Allah, encourages good deeds, helps others, and responds to life with gratitude and contentment. We should be careful around people who gossip, backbite, belittle others, or waste time in harmful talk. The best friendships are rooted in sincere hearts and can benefit us both in this life and on the Day of Judgment.
- What is one quality that makes someone a truly good friend?
- How can we encourage a friend toward something good this week?
- What should we do when a conversation turns into gossip?
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