Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 18, 2026.
Forgive others and guard your speech
“If you would like Allah to be merciful upon you, have mercy for those around you.”
In one sentence
Seeking Allah’s forgiveness requires believers to forgive others, guard their speech, and resist revenge for Allah’s sake.
The khutbah in 5 steps
- Forgiveness from Allah should be mirrored by forgiving people who wrong us.
- The story of Aisha’s lost jewelry and Safwan’s escort leads into the slander spread in Medina.
- The khutbah warns against speculation, loose speech, gossip, and backbiting in social gatherings.
- Quranic guidance clears Aisha’s name and teaches Abu Bakr not to withdraw support from Mistah.
- Believers should forgive for Allah’s sake, resist revenge, and show mercy to receive mercy.
Try this week
Avoid gossip, backbiting, and speculation about other people’s private affairs.
Turn away from conversations and matters that do not concern you.
Forgive people who have wronged you for Allah’s sake.
Choose Allah’s moral guidance over revenge and personal anger.
Show mercy to others while seeking Allah’s mercy.
Quotes
In the khateeb's words
“from the goodness of a person's Islam, from the best of a person's Islam, is when they turn away from matters that do not concern them.”
“don't use your own personal emotions as a litmus for your own goodness use Allah and your morals to be the reason why you do what you do”
“forgive to be forgiven if you would like Allah to be merciful upon you have mercy for those around you”
Talk about it at home
For the dinner table
The khutbah teaches that asking Allah for forgiveness should make us willing to forgive people who hurt us. Through the story of Aisha’s slander, it shows how quickly speculation and gossip can injure an innocent person and damage a community. The Quran’s guidance on backbiting and Abu Bakr’s decision to forgive Mistah teach us to leave revenge and personal anger to pursue Allah’s pleasure. This week, we can guard our speech, avoid conversations about other people’s private business, and practice mercy when forgiveness is hard.
- What is one kind thing we can say or do when a conversation turns into gossip?
- Who might we need to forgive, and what would a first step look like?
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