Hajj, Umrah & EidFrom the masjid's own video, May 28, 2026.

Eid should strengthen family faith and shared joy

“In Islam, we make an effort and we attach our hearts to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.”

The khateeb, at 31:11

In one sentence

Eid al-Adha should renew families' commitment to salah, righteous parenting, trusting effort, compassionate connection, and sharing joy with those in need.

The khutbah in 5 steps

  1. Eid al-Adha connects worship with Hajj and the example of Ibrahim's family.
  2. Ibrahim prioritized prayer and righteousness, while Hajar modeled effort joined with trust in Allah.
  3. Parents should build close, merciful relationships with children instead of outsourcing their upbringing to screens.
  4. Udhiyah should spread Eid's happiness to people experiencing need.
  5. Families should celebrate together, strengthen unity, and practice faith collectively.
Try this week
Prioritize establishing salah and righteousness within the family.
Listen to children, invite them to express their feelings, and create a safe relationship with them.
Limit reliance on phones and screens as substitutes for parental involvement.
Offer udhiyah and share its benefits with people in need.
Celebrate Eid together, greet others, shake hands, and congratulate fellow Muslims.
Sources the khateeb cited
Quran 14:37Ibrahim's prayer emphasizes establishing salah as the priority for his family.
Quran 18:82The righteousness of a father is presented as protection for his children's inheritance.
Quran 22:28The command to feed the distressed and poor explains the communal purpose of sacrifice.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“And Eid al-Adha reminds us of the amazing pillar of Hajj. And when we look at the two Eids, our two Eids are not isolated from worship.”
Jam-e-Masjid Islamic Center · Boonton, NJ
Play from 26:28
“In Islam, we make an effort and we attach our hearts to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.”
Jam-e-Masjid Islamic Center · Boonton, NJ
Play from 31:11
“We need to make sure that as parents, we are the caretakers of our children.”
Jam-e-Masjid Islamic Center · Boonton, NJ
Play from 35:08
“And this shows us that our joy and our Eid is not isolated from the struggles of others.”
Jam-e-Masjid Islamic Center · Boonton, NJ
Play from 36:27
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

Eid al-Adha reminds us that celebration is deeply connected to worship and to the example of Ibrahim's family. Ibrahim prioritized prayer and righteousness, while Hajar showed that trusting Allah includes making a serious effort. Parents should stay closely connected to their children, listen to them, and not let screens replace family guidance. Udhiyah teaches us to share Eid's happiness with people in need. We should celebrate together, show kindness, and strengthen the unity of our community.

  1. What is one way our family can make salah a stronger priority?
  2. How can we make someone else feel the joy of Eid?
  3. What helps you feel safe talking honestly with your parents?