Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Jul 25, 2026.
Arrogance blocks our duty to care for earth
“Kibber, or arrogance, is rejecting the truth and looking down upon the people.”
In one sentence
Arrogance (kibr), the ego exemplified by Iblis's refusal to bow, is the internal enemy that blocks individuals, families, and the community from fulfilling their God-given role as caretakers of the earth, and it must be overcome through ongoing purification of the self guided by revelation rather than desire.
The khutbah in 8 steps
- Opening praise, shahadah, and call to true taqwa (not faked) so one dies as a Muslim
- Allah honored humanity: Adam named khalifa (caretaker) of the earth before he had wealth, family, or civilization
- Human dignity is universal and not based on language, origin, or wealth, illustrated by how believers line up for prayer
- The obstacle: Iblis's refusal to bow, his arrogance ('I am better than him'), and how inner pride became action then justification
- Hadith on kibr: no one with an atom's weight of arrogance enters Paradise; arrogance defined as rejecting truth and looking down on people
- Second half: the two pulls, guidance (huda) vs. desire (hawa), and regulating desires before they become one's god
- Ego in real time: refusing to apologize or be first to apologize; Quran as a mirror ('Allah won't change a people's condition until they change themselves')
- Purification of the soul (Surah ash-Shams) as ongoing weeding of a garden; close urging self-examination and ego under God's guidance
Try this week
Strive to live sincerely as a Muslim rather than faking taqwa, since no one knows where they will die
Ask before every choice: am I following guidance (huda) or my desires (hawa)?
Apologize when you hurt a family member, co-worker, or community member, and be the first to apologize
Read the Quran as a mirror, identifying what in yourself needs to change
Continuously purify the self like weeding a garden; seek Allah's forgiveness and return to guidance after mistakes
Keep the ego under God's guidance instead of following the footsteps of Satan
Accept the truth regardless of who it comes from
Sources the khateeb cited
Quran 3:102Opened the sermon: be genuine in taqwa and strive to live as Muslims since none know where they will die
Surah 2Adam appointed khalifa/caretaker of the earth before wealth, family, or civilization, purpose and responsibility precede possessions
Quran 17:70Universal human dignity, refuting the myth that worth comes from language, origin, or money
Quran 95:4Every human, not only Muslims or one gender, is created with honor and inner potential
Surah 7Iblis's reply 'I am better than him' exposed his inner condition; arrogance begins internally then appears in action and speech
Quran 13:11Quran as mirror: communal change requires inner change first
Quran 38:76Desires must be regulated by guidance or they become one's ilah (god)
Quran 91:7-10Tazkiyah (purification of the nafs) as the ongoing success criterion for believers
Quotes
In the khateeb's words
“No one has an Adam's weight of arrogance in his heart will enter paradise.”
“kibber, or arrogance, is rejecting the truth and looking down upon the people.”
“And we find ourselves ego-tripping, we're not worried about anybody else that's around us.”
“He won't change the condition of a people until they change what is in their own selves.”
Talk about it at home
For the dinner table
Today's khutbah reminded us that every human being is honored by Allah, no matter where we come from or what we look like. The speaker warned that the real enemy inside us is our own ego, like Iblis who thought he was better than Adam. When we let pride take over, we stop listening to truth, look down on others, and refuse to say sorry. The khateeb encouraged us to follow guidance instead of our desires and to keep purifying our hearts. Strong families and strong communities start when each person takes responsibility for what is inside themselves.
- When is it hardest for you to say 'I'm sorry'?
- Can you think of a time when following what you wanted got you into trouble?
- How can we remind each other that everyone in our family has God-given dignity?
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