Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Oct 30, 2026.
Stay principled as times and people change
“It's very, very difficult to stay a rock of hope.”
In one sentence
As times and relationships change, Muslims should remain principled and moderate, protect others, embrace beneficial growth, and serve society for Allah's pleasure.
The khutbah in 6 steps
- Steadfastness becomes difficult as people, circumstances, and times change.
- Surah al-Isra frames honoring parents and practicing moderation in relationships.
- The sermon applies this balance to adultery, parenting, orphan rights, covenants, and humility.
- Abu Ubaidah illustrates trustworthy, simple, genuine character amid changing circumstances.
- Muslims should pursue civic engagement and constructive action against oppression.
- Positive change, self-criticism, and lifelong learning should advance obedience to Allah.
Try this week
Honor parents with gentle, respectful speech and supplication.
Use moderation in relationships instead of chasing everyone's approval.
Do not retaliate against children for personal pain, stress, or disappointment.
Protect orphans and vulnerable people, fulfill covenants, and avoid arrogance.
Remain civically engaged and vote when eligible.
Accept beneficial change, learn from experience, and advance in obedience to Allah.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 17Its verses were used to discuss parents, relational moderation, adultery, children, orphans, covenants, and humility.
Quotes
In the khateeb's words
“But it's very, very difficult to stay a rock of hope. Somebody who's steadfast, somebody who keeps persevering and guiding towards good with the changing of people and the changing of times.”
“It is all about mudaraat. Subhanallah. Literally the word moderation in the English language. Mudaraat, moderation. Take the middle ground in terms of your relationship.”
“Don't take that vengeance off on your children. And perhaps I'm the first recipient of this verse that let us not make dhulm upon our children”
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