Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Sep 3, 2025.
The Prophet's character answers insult with mercy
“I was not given the revelation to curse anyone, but I was giving the revelation to be guidance and mercy.”
In one sentence
The Prophet Muhammad's exemplary character, especially his patience, mercy, forgiveness, and refusal to answer insult with insult, should guide Muslims' conduct.
The khutbah in 4 steps
- The Quran is presented as the clearest portrait of the Prophet's character.
- The khateeb explains Quranic commands to forgive, do right, avoid ignorance, and persevere patiently.
- Examples from Uhud and other encounters illustrate the Prophet's mercy toward enemies and patience under insult.
- Listeners are urged to represent Islam through the Prophet's character and follow Quranic guidance.
Try this week
Forgive people who have wronged you.
Give generously even when others deny or withhold from you.
Reconnect with people who have boycotted or distanced themselves from you.
Respond to insults without returning insult for insult.
Represent Islam through Quran-guided conduct and the Prophet's character.
Quotes
In the khateeb's words
“Forgive he who was unjust to you. And to give to who denies you.”
“I was not given the revelation to curse anyone. but I was giving the revelation to be guidance and mercy.”
“The money is Allah's money. And I am His servant. He didn't forget who he is.”
Talk about it at home
For the dinner table
The khutbah presented Prophet Muhammad as the greatest example of beautiful character. The speaker explained that the Quran was reflected in the Prophet’s conduct, especially in his forgiveness, patience, mercy, and humility. Even when people hurt or insulted him, he did not answer with another insult and often prayed for their guidance. We should follow his example in our homes, relationships, and wider community by letting Quranic guidance shape how we treat people.
- What is one kind response you could give when someone annoys you?
- When is forgiving someone difficult, and what might help?
- How can our family represent Islam through good character?
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