Character & conductFrom the masjid's own video, Jun 20, 2026.

Ihsan perfects faith through character and compassion

“The money comes and goes, but what stays is your character.”

The khateeb, at 9:37

In one sentence

Ihsan, worshipping Allah as if you see Him, perfects faith by purifying intention, elevating character above worldly gain, and producing compassion toward people and animals.

The khutbah in 7 steps

  1. Introduction: the khutbah is about Ihsan, the perfection of faith, and the need for taqwa and self-accountability.
  2. Purifying intention (niyyah) gives purpose to every daily action, school, work, family, and worship.
  3. True Muslim identity is spiritual elevation and contentment, not pleasure, status, or achievement.
  4. Righteousness builds individual and societal trustworthiness; worldly rivalry and division weaken the Ummah.
  5. Family and community upbringing shape character; isolation invites Shaytan, while brotherhood and the masjid give strength.
  6. The Hadith of Ihsan and the story of the man who gave water to a thirsty dog.
  7. Conclusion: a dua that Allah makes the believers people of Ihsan.
Try this week
Start each day by thanking Allah and renewing your intention.
Ask 'why am I doing this?' before school, work, or family tasks.
Attend Fajr and Isha in the masjid and keep righteous company.
Treat every person and animal with the kindness you would show family.
Hold yourself accountable before the Day of Judgment.
Sources the khateeb cited
Surah 2Every soul will be compensated and none wronged on the Day of Return.
Quotes

In the khateeb's words

“The money comes and goes, but what stays is your character.”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 9:37
“But when you are surrounded by people, you have the strength, and you don't have the shaytan able to be around you.”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 11:23
“this dog is just as thirsty as I am right before he went down into the well to quench his thirst.”
Masjid Sadar · Parlin, NJ
Play from 15:54
Talk about it at home

For the dinner table

The khutbah reminded us that ihsan means trying to live and worship with the awareness that Allah always sees us. Our actions should begin with a sincere intention and a clear purpose, whether we are praying, studying, working, or caring for family. We can pursue higher goals while still saying alhamdulillah and learning from every situation Allah places us in. Good character, trustworthy friends, and a supportive community help protect and strengthen our faith. The story of the thirsty dog showed that even a simple act of mercy toward an animal can be precious to Allah.

  1. What is one everyday task you could turn into worship by giving it a good intention?
  2. Who helps you make better choices when you feel tempted or alone?
  3. What small act of kindness could you do this week for a person or an animal?